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Wedding Getaway Dresses On Amazon

Finding your dream dress for your wedding is stressful and at the end of the day, you don’t want to ruin it or come home and spend the next hour trying to unbutton your beautiful and expensive wedding dress when all you really want to be doing is enjoying the night with your new Husband. That is why a huge trend in weddings is to get a “Getaway dress” That you change into at your reception and do your grand exit in. This way you can do some final touch-ups as you change and also so that you don’t have to stuff your HUGE wedding dress into the car and have it take up half of the car.

Since you are only wearing this dress in a few photos and only for a little bit at the end of the day, you probably don’t want to spend too much on it. Although these are super cute white summer dresses so if you do want to re-wear them they would still be super cute and romantic for an anniversary date night outfit.

WARNING I ALWAYS suggest that you read reviews and check the measurements on the dresses before purchasing them for yourself. There are affiliate links in this post.

That being said here are a few of my favorite Wedding Getaway Dresses on Amazon for under 50$ that are super cute, flowy, and perfect for your big day!

1. Women’s Summer Square Neck Puff Sleeve Boho Midi Dress Swiss Dot Ruffle Flowy Tie Back Dress

This white dress is perfect for a summer wedding it has the cutest back with a beautiful bow and a gorgeous neckline. One thing I want to point out on this dress is that the bottom section is seethrough, some might find this as an issue, but nothing a quick sewing couldn’t fix.

This dress is great for an after-wedding dress that is both boho and cottage core aesthetic. This might be my favorite white dress on amazon so far. This dress has been given a 4-star rating so they have overall great reviews.

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White after wedding dress outfit that is a great wedding getaway dress for the grand exit at a wedding for the bride. This would look great in pictures and has a gorgeous bow on the back with a beautiful dotted material.

2. Women’s Dress Sweet & Cute V-Neck Bell Sleeve Shift Dress Mini Dress

This dress is super elegant and chic and I love everything about it. This amazon dress has very beautiful big sleeves and a lot of amazing reviews.

I love the sheer sleeves and how classy it looks especially with some gold jewelry. This is a flattering dress for most body shapes. This would be the perfect outfit to exit your classy and elegant wedding in.

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Classy and elegant white short dress for wedding exit. Perfect getaway dress for a classy bride. It has beautiful long sleeves with a flattering shape for most body types. white wedding getaway dress

3. Women’s V Neck Smocked Short Sleeve Casual Dress Swiss Dot Swing Flowy Ruffle Hem Mini Beach Summer Dresses

This is one of my favorite white dresses on Amazon. I am such a sucker for white swiss dot fabrics. I love the flowy sleeves and the stretchy bust area.

This dress has great reviews and is flattering on all body types including plus-size women. It is a great length that is modest and cute. Perfect for a summer white wedding getaway dress.

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Women's V Neck Smocked Short Sleeve Casual Dress Swiss Dot Swing Flowy Ruffle Hem Mini Beach Summer Dresses perfect for a getaway dress at a wedding

4. Women’s Lace Wrap Mini Dresses Floral V Neck Ruffle Short Dress with Belt

This dress isn’t my favorite one but when I looked at the reviews it looked AMAZING on a lot of women and for the price point it is an overall very cute dress for brides and their special day. This dress would look amazing for an elegant bride in the summer months.

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Womens Lace Wrap Mini Dresses Floral V Neck Ruffle Short Dress with Belt. Wedding white Getaway dress

5. Women’s Summer Flutter Short Sleeve Smocked Midi Dress Swiss Dot Flowy Tiered Dresses

I love this dress and I think it is super cute, the only issue that I see is the sleeves are not super flattering if you have bigger arms but still would be beautiful on most brides. I also saw that the bottom is a little sheer and some people were not a huge fan of that. The bust is stretchy and could fit most brides but the neckline is high so if you find that flattering on yourself I would definitely suggest this dress to you. Perfect white wedding getaway dress for the summer.

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Women's Summer Flutter Short Sleeve Smocked Midi Dress Swiss Dot Flowy Tiered Dresses. white wedding get away dress.

6. Women’s Casual Summer Crew Neck Short Puff Sleeve Smocked High Waist Ruffle Tiered A-Line Midi Dress

I love this dress but I personally do not look good in puffy sleeves. I do know MANY people who do look good in puffy sleeves so I had to add this one to the list. It is modest and cute for a bride who may not want to reveal too much of herself.

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Women's Casual Summer Crew Neck Short Puff Sleeve Smocked High Waist Ruffle Tiered A Line Midi Dress

7. Women’s Tunic Dress Cute Printed V Neck Long Sleeve Casual Swing Ruffle Dress

This dress is very Boho chic and I love it. Reviews looked great and are Amazon’s best sellers.

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Women's Tunic Dress Cute Printed V Neck Long Sleeve Casual Swing Ruffle Dress

8. Women’s Casual Satin Dress Spaghetti Strap Cowl Neck Slips Side Slit Cocktail Party Silk Mini Cami Dresses

This dress is very cute but did have the lowest rating out of all the dresses on this post. I think this would be a very nice dress for an elegant bride and a great cocktail dress for the Wedding after-party.

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Women's Casual Satin Dress Spaghetti Strap Cowl Neck Slips Side Slit Cocktail Party Silk Mini Cami Dresses

9. Women’s Casual V Neck Long Sleeve Smocked High Waist Ruffle A Line Tiered Mini Dress

This is a very basic but cute dress for any bride who wants to keep it airy and modest. The long puff sleeves are gorgeous and the bust is stretchy for most body types. This dress had the best review ranking on Amazon out of the list I created for White wedding getaway dresses.

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Women's Casual V Neck Long Sleeve Smocked High Waist Ruffle A Line Tiered Mini Dress. getaway dress white

10. Women White Dresses Short Sleeve V Neck Ruffle Cute Sun Dress Chiffon Flowy Shift Mini Dress

This one is similar to the one above but has the little white polka dots which I think are super cute. This dress had overall pretty good reviews and would look good on a lot of beautiful brides.

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Womens White Dresses Short Sleeve V Neck Ruffle Cute Sun Dress Chiffon Flowy Shift Mini Dress. Chic white wedding getaway dress for after party.

11. Women’s Warp V Neck Ruffle Short Sleeve A Line Swing Flared Cocktail Party Midi Dress

I am definitely considering buying this dress for myself because the reviews are amazing and the dress is very flattering and is flowy and elegant. I love the flutter sleeves and the waist giving it a lot of shapes which can be hard in white dresses.

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Women's Warp V Neck Ruffle Short Sleeve A Line Swing Flared Cocktail Party Midi Dress. Perfect wedding white getaway dress

12. Women’s Long Sleeve Sweetheart Neck Waist Tie Double Layer Ruffle Mini Dress Flowy Tiered Short Dress

I LOVE the neckline of this dress and the beautiful long sleeves with the adorable bow in the front. This is such a cute dress with great reviews and is a super cute white getaway dress for your wedding exit.

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Women's Long Sleeve Sweetheart Neck Waist Tie Double Layer Ruffle Mini Dress Flowy Tiered Short Dress. white wedding getaway dress

13. Women Short Sleeve Summer V Neck High Low Smocked Maxi Dress

I LOVE THIS DRESS I think it is SO cute and it would look good on so many people and it is great with different chest sizes as well.

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9 LDS Thanksgiving Quotes

Thanksgiving is such an amazing holiday where we can be reminded to be grateful for those around us and for the blessings that we have received. So I decided to pull together a few of my favourite quotes about gratitude from our modern-day prophets and apostles from the Church of Jesus Christ Of Latter-Day Saints to remind us of the importance of being grateful in our everyday lives.

These quotes can uplift and motivate us to strive to be more grateful in our everyday lives. They are a reminder of how gratitude can change our outlook on life and in return make us happier and more productive people.

I run an LDS meme page where I share quotes and memes that can help bring unity to members across the world with either a relatable joke or and uplifting quotes. @armyofhelamemes where many of these are from and tagged in the picture as well. Feel free to like and follow my meme account //Facebook @armyofhelamemes // Instagram @armyofhelamemes //Pinterest @armyofhelamemes.

1. “To live with gratitude in our hearts is to touch Heaven.” -Thomas S. Monson

2. “Our degree of gratitude is a measure of our love for him”- Russell M Nelson

3. “No matter our circumstances, no matter our challenges or trials, there is something in each day to embrace and cherish. There is something in each day that can bring gratitude and joy if only we will see and appreciate it.” – Dieter F. Uchtdorf

4. ” Gratitude is a catalyst to all Christlike attributes! A thankful heart is the parent of all virtues.”- Dieter F. Uchtdorf

5. “We should even give thanks for our afflictions because they turn our hearts to God and gives us opportunities to prepare for what God would have us become.”-Dallin H. Oaks

6. “Gratitude is a mark of a noble sould and a refined character. We like to be around those who are grateful. They tend to brighten all around them. They make others feel better about themselves. They tend to be more humble, more joyful, more likeable. – Joseph B. Wirthlin

7. “We can choose to be grateful no matter what”- Dieter F. Uchtdorf

8. “Live in Thanksgiving Daily” -Dieter F. Uchtdorf

9. “There is one thing we can do to make life sweeter, more joyful, even glorious. We can be Grateful!”- Dieter F. Uchtdorf

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Are They Really The One You Should Marry?

Are you dating someone but not sure if you actually want to marry them? Here are a few red flags and things you should consider before getting engaged, let alone getting married. These are a few tips that can help you decide if they are really the one. And to find out if you really want to spend the rest of your life together.

Is He Really The One You Should Marry? Red Flags and more.

12 Things To Consider Before You Decide To Get Married

1. What is your Gut telling you?

You should ALWAYS listen and trust your gut. I cannot repeat this enough. Your gut knows way more than you do. It can pick things up that you would not without it. For example, you can feel eyes on you without having to see someone staring at you. It is the same concept as your gut. Even if you do not fully understand it, listen to it and trust it. You may not know why at the beginning but you will thank yourself later.

2. Listen to your Family & Close Friends

Your family and close friends know you and they can see things that you may not. Listen to their concerns and actively ask them for their opinion and concerns about your partner. Having an outside look in can be tremendously helpful in deciding whether this is the person for you or not. You should respect their opinion and have an open mind to what they have to say.

3. Does your partner have toxic tendencies?

This is such an important thing to look for because they might start off not that bad but as time goes on it will increase and by then it’s too late and could escalate into a verbally or physically abusive relationship. So make sure you are being realistic when thinking about who they will become and small red flags. At the end of the day, it is your choice to decide what you are comfortable with and what are deal-breakers for you. So proceed with caution.

4. Why do you want to marry them? Besides Love.

Love is an amazing and sacred thing but it is not the only factor in choosing a spouse.

Do you like their family?

Do you feel safe around them/ with them?

Do your life goals complement each other?

Do you want to raise kids the same way?

Do they make you want to be a better person?

Are they good with finances?

Do you have the same religious beliefs?

Etc…

There are so many logistics that come into play when you merge your two lives together as well as your families together. Love is important but it is not the only important thing to consider. In many cultures and places around the world, love doesn’t even play a part in a marriage. So make sure you and your partner are compatible in every way or that you are willing to make it work besides some hiccups.

5. Do you or them have anger issues?

Remember you will be spending the rest of your life together so make sure you know if you can handle their anger issues and don’t be naive with this topic because this could be a huge deal in your marriage.

6. How do you argue with each other?

I always tell couples you have to argue at least once before you seal the deal. I mean like actually argue to see how they react in certain situations and that you can see if you are willing to deal with how they argue for the rest of your life because if you are married you are going to argue it’s inevitable. It is nearly impossible not to.

7. Do you like their friends?

You are a combination of the top 5 closest people to you. So if you do not like their friends there is a good chance you may not like them when the butterflies and the rose-covered glasses go away.

8. Do you personally think you are ready to get married?

Not only should you consider qualities in your partner, but yourself as well. You don’t want to ruin an amazing relationship because you were not ready. So heres a few questions to help you find out if you are ready:

Can you swallow your pride for a greater outcome?

Do you know what you want in a partner?

Do you know what you need in a partner?

Are you petty?

Are you emotionally stable?

Are you emotionally mature?

Are you being honest with yourself and your partner?

Etc…

9. How are your financials? Are you good with money? Are They?

Money can be one of the biggest causes of fights and divorces so it is so important that you are open and honest with your money habits and that you are both doing your best at being more money friendly.

10. Do your life goals/ priorities line up with each other?

It’s your life and you can do literally anything you want to do and you don’t want to regret throwing your plans away. Blaming your partner for not being able to live up to your potential is toxic and depressing for both parties. Make sure you know what you want and if it’s them, then go for it! If not, maybe you should take a second look.

11. Do you feel pressured to Marry them?

Love is an amazing thing and should never be rushed. Take your time and don’t just get married because people are telling you that you need to. Even if it’s your partner. If you feel like the time is right then go for it! If not, take your time.

12. Do you really know them well enough?

I am a huge true crime binger and if there is anything I have learned from it is, do you really know your spouse well enough? A lot of spouses of the murderers say they had no idea that they were doing things like this or even capable of it. Now that may be an extreme example of this question but you should know every single detail of your spouse before you get engaged or you will be so shocked after you get married. No one goes into a marriage wanting a divorce, which is why it is so important to make sure you do know them!

Here are 100 Questions you should ask before even considering getting engaged. To help you out!

I hope these Questions help you decide if they are really the one you should Marry.

At the end of the day, it is your choice on who you marry and when. So I hope these questions help you decide if they really are the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. These questions definitely helped me decide if I wanted to break up with my ex-boyfriends and if I wanted to marry my husband and I couldn’t be happier with my final decision.

If there is anything I missed please let me know!

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5 Things I Regret & Advice I Would Give To My Younger Self

Here are 5 things I regret doing in high school/ and advice I would give to my younger self. Hopefully, these can help you avoid the same mistakes that I made and live a more fulfilling life!

1. Just because you didn’t like something before doesn’t mean you won’t like it now. Be open-minded.

This applies to almost everything. Movies, Foods, Drinks, etc… I use to hate peanut butter but now I eat it all the time!

2. Make opinions for yourself don’t just trust what others/ the media says

I feel like this should be common sense but I feel like when we are younger we tend to just go with the flow on some things that we really shouldn’t. With anything, we should do our own research and look at both sides and then create our own opinion.

3. You don’t find yourself. You create yourself so start becoming who you want to be.

I feel like so many people spend years trying to “find themselves” getting themselves into bad situations and lots of regrets and ending up not living up to their potential. So stop trying to find yourself and start thinking about who you want to become. Then start becoming that person.

4. Cherish your family because they love and care about you and will be there forever.

Friends come and go but family is forever. Your family loves you more than you can imagine and they care about you so much. You should make them a priority and actually listen to their advice and cherish having them around and really get to know them. Listen to their music and don’t be an angsty teenager and actually be their friends.

5. Admit When You’re Wrong. Being prideful and stubborn gets you nowhere.

All that being prideful and stubborn does is get you nowhere. Be an adult and take responsibility, you will grow so much more and be a much better person to be around. Also the more you do it, the more respect others will give you, and the more they will do it to others and make this world a better place.

We all have regrets, but I hope these help you avoid some of mine. I hope these help you live a more fulfilling life and reach your full potential.

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Top 10 LDS Quotes To Get You Through The Hard Days

Top 10 LDS Quotes For Bad Days

After 6 years of running a Christian/ LDS Quote & Meme account (@armyofhelamemes) I have collected some of my favorite Christian quotes that personally help me through the hard days and hopefully can help you too.

Most of these quotes are from members of the Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter-Day Saints. Others are just great quotes I have heard that I genuinely love and could not find the original source too.

These quotes have helped me through some really tough days and I knew I have to share them with you. They give me hope and remind me that there are brighter days ahead. I really hope they can do the same for you!

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These 10 Quotes have helped me through some of the toughest days and I hope they can help you too. If you have any quotes that helped you through the hard days please comment them down below to help others! Or contact me on IG either on my personal @rachel__cushing or my LDS account @armyofhelamemes I would love to hear them!

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The Ultimate LDS Wedding Check List

Planning a wedding is super stressful and a lot of work. A lot of the time we forget the smallest details and it makes our big day an extra stressful mess. This is why I went on Pinterest for hours trying to make sure I covered every single detail of my wedding to make sure that nothing went through the cracks.

As a Member Of The Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter-Day Saints, there are a lot of extra steps that people outside of my faith do not have to worry about. So when I was looking for a wedding checklist it was a lot harder because there isn’t that much LDS wedding content. That’s when I knew I needed to make this list so that I can help other LDS girls plan their wedding and not stress nearly as much!

This list should have everything but if somethings do not apply to you feel free to skip over them. Every wedding is different so I hope this can help you as much as possible!

The Ultimate LDS Wedding Check List

– Choose a photographer

– Get engagement photos

– Choose a date

– Choose a temple

– Make sure you have discussed EVERYTHING with your partner and that you know he is the one you want to actually spend eternity with (Check out my blog post 100 questions to ask before you get married)

– Make a Budget for your Wedding (Make sure to check out 25 Unique Ways To Save You Thousands on your Dream Wedding to make the most out of your budget!)

– Pinterest Pinterest Pinterest!!! Get as much inspiration as you can!

– Book a Venue

– Book the temple

– Book your endowment at the temple

– Book an appointment with your bishop

– Book an appointment with your stake president 

– Choose your bridal party (Bridesmaids, Maid of Honor, Grooms men & Best man)

– Choose wedding colours

– Start looking for bridesmaid dresses, shoes, jewelry, hairstyles, make-up styles, etc…

– Start looking for groomsmen ties, belts, suspenders, jackets, vests, cuff links, shoes, suit/ tuxedo, boutonniere, socks, watches, etc…

– Figure out Who is in charge /when the bridal shower will be

– Figure out who is in charge/ when the bachelorette party will be 

– Figure out who is in charge/when the bachelor party will be. 

– Book an appointment with wedding dress stores you want to go to

– Make a guest list 

– Make a Temple sealing guest list

– Make wedding invitations

– Make sealing invites for a selected few

– Send out wedding invites

– Figure out what type of birth control you want to use (ask doctor and do some research)

– Book a photographer 

– Book a videographer 

– Find housing for after the wedding

– Book a nail appointment?

– Book a tanning session?

– Book waxing/ hair removal session? 

– Buy hair extensions?

– Book eyelash extensions appointment?

– Find a wedding band for your husband 

– Decide if you want a ring ceremony?

– Make a day plan

– Order a cake?

– Choose/ book catering

– Choose a dress/ get alterations 

– Book hairdresser

– Book make up artist 

– Talk to a florist and order floral

– Choose/ book a honeymoon

– Make a Wedding registry

– Do a makeup trial 

– Do hair trial 

– Choose shoes 

– Choose jewelry 

– Temple dress (for a list of online stores that sell cute LDS Temple Dresses Click Here)

– Start looking for lingerie 

– Choose a seating arrangement?

– Choose Center pieces 

– Choose Wedding Decor

– Photo station?

– Gift table?

– Guest book?

– Wedding games ( 6 Wedding Games You Have To Have At Your Reception Or You Will Regret It)

– Wedding toasts?

– Wedding letters? (letters you write to each other and read them the morning of your wedding day)

– Father-daughter dance? 

– First dance?

– Mother and son dance?

– Garter/ Garter Toss?

– Vows?

– Get Away plan?

– Getaway dress?

– Wedding favors? 

– Choose MC for reception 

– Figure out how you are going to do audio

– DJ or Band?

– Choose the type of reception you want. Line reception or Sit down reception? 

– Wedding gift to spouse? 

– Get endowment temple recommend from the stake president 

– Buy garments

– Buy Temple clothes

– Hopefully, do some spiritual prep before getting endowed

– Get endowed

– Figure our who is going to be the set up crew 

– Kidā€™s room?

– Choose someone to be in charge of putting all of your personal stuff in the car before you leave.

– Choose a clean up crew if your venue doesn’t have one

– Choose someone assigned to take care of leftover food.

– Choose someone assigned to bring wedding gifts to your house or to your car.

Actual Wedding Day Planning

– First look photos

– Temple photos

– Wedding photos

– Bridal Portraits

– Wedding night hotel?

If I missed anything please let me know!

I really hope this post can help you plan for your wedding. I would have loved to have one of these on my day! If you know anyone else who is LDS and trying to plan a wedding, make sure you send this there way so that they can be less stressed!

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Self Inventory Question To Ask Yourself Often

40 Self Inventory Questions to Ask Yourself Often. Rachelfern.com Deep reflection questions

How These Questions Have Helped Me & Could Help You

Every few months I go into a room alone and answer these 40 questions. They have improved my life so much and I hope they can do the same for you as well!

For me, these self-inventory questions have been a form of meditation and self-reflection. Every time I go through them they realign my thoughts and help me focus on my goals. These questions motivate me to become my best self and live a better life and they can for you as well.

Feel free to take all the time you need to answer these questions, if you need to take breaks in between that is totally fine! These can be a lot to take in and could help you through some ruts and problems in your life. These questions for me at least are a form of therapy and I love going through them and working through mental blocks and improving myself mentally.

How To Get The Most Out Of These Questions

These questions are great but if you are not honest with yourself you are going to get nothing out of them. You need to think deeply about the questions and into your life and this could take a while but it is definitely worth the time!

Self Inventory Questions To Ask Yourself Often:

Self Inventory

1. Are my choices guided by love or fear?

2. Am I a good example to others around me?

3. Is this the life I want to be living?

4. What would I do if there were no limits?

5. Am I around people who drain me mentally/ physically?

6. Are the people around me lifting me up or dragging me down?

7. What would I do differently if I knew nobody would judge me?

8. Why am I so uncomfortable with talking to strangers?

9.  Am I a source of inspiration for my friends and family?

10. Who inspires me the most and why?

11. If I was to give one piece of life advice to a newborn what would it be?

12. Am I holding onto something I need to let go?

13. Is there someone I need to forgive?

14. What was the last time I felt major inspiration and why?

15. When was the last time I made a new friend?

16. Does my presence add value to those around me?

17. Am I a pleasant person to be around?

18. What part of my life doesnā€™t reflect who I am?

19. Where am I not being honest with myself and why?

20. Who are the people/person I can talk to about anything?

21. Am I comfortable with being uncomfortable?

22. Can I be alone without feeling lonely?

23. What do I love about myself the most?

24. What makes me happy?

25. Who are the people who believe in me?

26. What do I want to be remembered for?

27.if I died tomorrow would any of this matter?

28. What am I actually scared of?

29. What are your priorities? Put them in order.

30. What do I want to change about myself?

31. What makes me feel alive?

32. Do you find yourself influencing the world or getting influenced by the world?

33. Have you been the friend you wanted?

34. What are my Strengths?

35. What are my weaknesses?

36. When have I felt the most successful?

37. Am I reliable?

38. What do I want to accomplish in my lifetime?

39. How do I define success?

40. If I only had one week to live what would I do?

I Hope You Learned A Lot About Yourself!

This is not what I typically blog about but I thought this was such a huge help in my life that I could not give up the opportunity to share!

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Question To Ask Your Partner Before You Get Married

Marriage is such an amazing and sacred thing and because of that, it is important to make sure you marry the right partner. Marriage is definitely not something anyone should rush into so hopefully these questions help you prepare to get married.

Before you get married you should talk about literally EVERYTHING. There should be no secrets or gut feelings you have ignored. Discussing everything and anything you can beforehand to strengthen your marriage and make things easier when times get tough, and they will eventually get tough.

Although at the end of the day, it is your choice on who you marry and why, so proceed with caution and take what I have to say with a grain of salt.

100 Questions To Ask Your Partner Before Getting Married

I would definitely suggest asking these before you even get engaged but either or work!

  1. Do you have any debt?
  2. Why do you want to get married?
  3. How do you fight?
  4. How will we work through our fights?
  5. Are you willing to swallow your pride?
  6. What does your family think of me?
  7. How often will we see our families?
  8. Do you like my family?
  9. Where do you want to end up?
  10. What are deal breakers for you?
  11. What are your pet peeves?
  12. How neat/ tidy are you?
  13. How are we going to do clean-up?
  14. What traditions do you want to do with our family?
  15. What are your beliefs?
  16. Are you good with money?
  17. What is your stance on politics?
  18. Who is going to decorate the house?
  19. How many pets do you want?
  20. What type of pets are you okay with?
  21. How much education do you want?
  22. What are your life goals?
  23. What are your priorities?
  24. Do you want kids?
  25. How many kids do you want?
  26. How picky are you with baby names?
  27. How are we going to do finances?
  28. How are we going to budget?
  29. What is your sex drive like?
  30. How often will you want sex?
  31. What are your sexual preferences?
  32. How many people have you dated before me?
  33. What do you want in a partner?
  34. What qualities do you need in a partner?
  35. How many sexual partners have you had before me?
  36. What is the farthest you have gone sexually?
  37. Are you genuinely attracted to me?
  38. What is your favorite thing about me?
  39. Do you have any food allergies or intolerances?
  40. What foods do you not like?
  41. Who is going to cook?
  42. Can you cook?
  43. How much alone time do you need?
  44. How often are we going to go on vacation?
  45. How often do you want to go on date nights?
  46. Do you want to live near family?
  47. Where are you willing to move?
  48. If there is a better job opportunity are you willing to move?
  49. What is important to you?
  50. Do you like to relax on vacation or do a lot of activities on vacation?
  51. What type of vacations do you like?
  52. What happens if I get fat?
  53. What happens if you get fat?
  54. What happens if we fall out of love?
  55. Are there any friends you don’t like?
  56. How often are we going to see our friends?
  57. Are you a risk-taker/ are you willing to take risks?
  58. What happens if we have a honeymoon baby?
  59. What happens if we have twins?
  60. What type of birth control are we comfortable using?
  61. What happens if we have a baby with disabilities?
  62. What happens if one of us gets handicapped?
  63. Are you embarrassed by me?
  64. Do you love me or the idea of me?
  65. If I change are you still going to love me?
  66. Why would you ever get a divorce?
  67. Do you have any secrets you haven’t told me yet?
  68. What is your gut saying?
  69. Do you feel good about getting married?
  70. Have you prayed about it?
  71. Have you struggled with mental health?
  72. Does your family struggle with mental health?
  73. Are there any health problems that run in your family?
  74. What is your love language?
  75. Would you let me go through your phone?
  76. Do you think it’s appropriate to have friends of the opposite gender?
  77. Are you willing to go to counseling if we are having problems?
  78. Should we get a prenup?
  79. Do you look at pornography?
  80. Do you drink alcohol? How much is too much?
  81. Do you have a criminal record?
  82. Do you take prescriptions I don’t know about?
  83. Are you prone to addiction? Are you addicted to something I don’t know about?
  84. What do we do if one of us gets addicted to something?
  85. If someone asks for money what do you we do?
  86. What is our retirement plan?
  87. How would you feel if I didn’t groom myself for a few days? (shaving, makeup, etc…)
  88. How much alone time do you need?
  89. How would you like to be comforted when sad?
  90. How much does my appearance affect your feelings towards me?
  91. Do you think it is appropriate to have friends of the opposite gender?
  92. How often should we go on date nights?
  93. How often should we hang out with our friends?
  94. How much of our life should we not share with family/ friends?
  95. Do you have any deal breakers? (not acceptable things/behavior)
  96. How should we handle our money?
  97. Where do you want to be in 10 years?
  98. What happens if one of us gets mentally or physically disabled?
  99. If things ever got bad, would you be willing to go to couples therapy?
  100. What happens if one of us is infertile? Adoption? Surrogate? IVF?

I hope these questions help you determine if marriage is the right path for your relationship and help you through some hard questions that will hopefully make things easier in the future!

If you think I missed any questions that are essential to ask before you get engaged/ married comment down below and let me know so I can add them to the list!

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41 Online Stores That Sell Modest Dresses

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Modest Dresses are so Hard to Find

Let’s be honest, dressing modestly is kinda hard. Unless you live in Utah then it is a little easier with more options. But it can still be hard to dress cute and Trendy and still keep your standards.

I use to hate dressing modestly, but only because it was so hard to feel cute and confident in clothes that aren’t that cute or flattering. But now with so many more options, I love dressing modestly.

If you are about to become a Sister Missionary then this list will save your life!

I asked around and found as many Modest Dress stores as I could and here is the list! Hope this makes your life a little easier!

Ultimate Modest Dress Guide

Some of these stores are not all modest but tend to have a lot of good modest finds along the way. So definitely worth looking through all of them! These are all brands I trust and love. I have bought a lot of my own dresses through these sites!

I have also created an Amazon Store Front with all of the Cute and Modest Dresses on Amazon click here to go to it!

If I am missing any of your favorite Modest Dress stores, please let me know so I can add them to this list!

If you are looking for Modest Bridesmaid Dresses click here to see a list of places that sell them!

If you are looking for LDS Temple Dresses you can look at my blog post for stores that sell them or my Amazon Store Front which has all the LDS Temple dresses available on Amazon.

Feel free to share this with other people looking for Modest Dresses!

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18 Online Stores That Sell LDS Temple Dresses

18 online stores that sell LDS Temple dresses. Pin now and thank me later. Rachelfern.com

Why I made this List

When I was looking for a Temple Dress I was shocked that there really weren’t very many options. I knew I wanted to feel comfortable and confident in my dress. Especially when I go to the Temple for my Sealing or my Endowment. Luckily I found one I loved in time, but I was cutting it pretty close to the deadline! After I got endowed and lived in Utah for a bit, I learned of all these amazing stores that also sold Temple dresses! I was so shocked and I was so in love!

I kept telling everyone who was about to get engaged all these amazing stores they need to check out before they find the one they want! Because Deseret Book is great, but their options are very numbered.

I decided that when I made a blog I would have to make a list of all these amazing stores and help others feel comfortable and confident while in the Temple. I hope that this list helps you and that you can either find the dress of your dreams or replace your older one!

Chances are you might know these Stores already!

You might already know a lot of these stores but would never have guessed they also sold Temple Dresses. I asked around and hopefully, I found most of the stores that have Temple Dresses, if I missed one, please feel free to contact me so I can add it to this list!

Make sure you share this post with other LDS girls about to get endowed! This may make their life a little easier! This is a great way to minister to those about to get married or endowed!

What are LDS Temple Dresses?

For those of you who do not know what LDS is or what a Temple Dress is allow me to explain. LDS stands for Latter-Day Saints which means Members of the Church Of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. A Temple Dress is a long-sleeved Maxi Dress that is 100% White. You probably have seen a Temple from the Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter-Day Saints. They are GORGEOUS buildings that Members Of The Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter-Day Saints go to Worship in. As Members, we wear white which symbolizes Purity and Faith. To learn more about LDS Temples, Endowments & Sealings click here.

Some people even wear Temple Dresses as simple Wedding Dresses, so even if you are not LDS feel free to check out this list!

Now for the list:

List Of Where To Buy Cute LDS Temple Dresses

My Amazon Store Front – https://a.co/gkSYUNc

Deseret Book-https://deseretbook.com/products?keywords=temple+dress

Called To Surf-https://calledtosurf.com/collections/all-white

ModWhite- https://www.modwhite.com/

LoveOliveCo- https://loveoliveco.com/collections/white-collection

Twirl- https://www.twirldresses.com/shop/temple-dresses/

FEHRNVI- https://www.fehrnvi.com/collections/white-dresses

A Dressy Occasion – https://adressyoccasion.com/TempleAttire

SexyModest- https://www.sexymodest.com/collections/the-temple-collection

OneLovedBabe- https://www.onelovedbabe.com/collections/the-white/The-White?sort_by=created-descending

Discount Code for OneLovedBabe : RACHEL10

Latter-Day Bride- https://latterdaybride.com/collections/temple-dresses-moments-made

Maxwell- https://shopmaxwell.com/collections/temple-dresses

White Elegance- https://whiteelegance.com/

Q.NOOR- https://qnoor.com/collections/temple-goods

Neesees- https://www.neeseesdresses.com/collections/temple-dresses

Roolee- https://roolee.com/pages/search-results?type=product&q=white

JenClothing- https://jenclothing.com/collections/lds-temple-dresses

Pippy Pye Boutique – https://www.amberandivory.com/collections/temple-dresses

Amber & Ivy- https://www.amberandivory.com/collections/temple-dresses

These Were all the ones I could find! If there are any I am missing, please feel free to contact me and I will add them to the list!

I love the Temple so much and I am so grateful for all the blessings the Temple has given me and my family. I hope that as you prepare to go to the Temple you will feel comfortable and confident in your dress!

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